FROM A SOUL SISTA TO ANOTHER...A FREN ADVISING ANOTHER FREN...SOUND LIKE SOAP OPRA FOR TRUE.
Love can be so exciting and then again so amusingly dreadfull. Two people inlove, it sounds like that none of you two wants to give up with this "relationship". Each one for his/her personal reasons, of course. You are deeply in love with him and he is confused and selfish, like the 90% of the men. Obviously this doesn't mean that he is not in love with you. Conversely he loves you but, as I see it, he is one of those people who are terribly scared of falling in love. Generally this type of people prefer staying in a quiet, safe affection-relationship, feeling they have everything under control rather than putting themeselves into a troubleful whirlpool of love and passion. YOU MUST HAVE A BRAVEHEART TO LOVE. And you must be capable of mastering the situation because when you are in love you have no defences. You are vulnerable like a baby.
You will learn that most of the men are not bravehearted at all, even though they are taught to carry a rifle...
Anyway I don't mean that he's not bravehearted at all, but in this occasion he seems more to belong to the category "not equipped" than to the other minority of "full equipped".
Well, I stop writing now because it has just come to my mind one of my grandgrammy's famous statements, that was: " you'll never really learn it until you live it ". So, live it and leave it, Theresa! you are walking your path and this is only a stage, believe me.
Much love sista
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